Showing posts from September, 2017

About Feyisitan

Hi there, thank you for visiting my blog, I am Fèyísìtàn. I am the founder of The Nurtured Ministries to create awareness of Domestic Violence in African societies. The initiative was initially titled  ''NurturedNotTortured'' was chosen primarily from the reflection of my experience being in a marital narcissistic abusive relationship for a long period of time. While the relationship was extremely toxic, it was stressful, draining and distracting but I was never broken. I was being nurtured by the reality of knowing who I was as an individual, knowing who I am in Christ as a Christian and an understanding of scriptural principles for everyday living.

I believe my experience was for a purpose, for such a time as this. To equip and prepare me for this Ministry to help others who are or may find themselves in abusive or toxic relationships.

2 Corinthians 1:3-4 clearly define the foundation of this cause.

 ''3: All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ…

The Gain In Your Pain

Life experiences surely teach us things many of us did not bargain for. We were forced to learn through the journey of life. There are many things you don't get to learn in the classroom regardless of your level of educational qualification or exposure. The struggle with conception, medical challenges, weight loss, struggle with finances, bad habits, accidents, pains from the loss of a loved one, domestic violence, abuse, injustice, unemployment and other unpleasant circumstances have made some of us 'experts' on the subject matter that was once a challenge.
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There is a purpose behind your pain, the struggle, the challenge. While you pray them away...Ask the Lord to open your heart and mind to see the 'Purpose' in it. It isn't just your story, It's your ministry and that's your purpose or at least, one of them. Use It!

Remember Romans 8:28 - "And we know that for those who Love God, ALL things work together for good, for those who are called …