About Feyisitan

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Hi there, thank you for visiting my blog, I am Fèyísìtàn. I am the founder of The Nurtured Ministries to create awareness of Domestic Violence in African societies. The initiative was initially titled  ''NurturedNotTortured'' was chosen primarily from the reflection of my experience being in a marital narcissistic abusive relationship for a long period of time. While the relationship was extremely toxic, it was stressful, draining and distracting but I was never broken. I was being nurtured by the reality of knowing who I was as an individual, knowing who I am in Christ as a Christian and an understanding of scriptural principles for everyday living.

I believe my experience was for a purpose, for such a time as this. To equip and prepare me for this Ministry to help others who are or may find themselves in abusive or toxic relationships.

2 Corinthians 1:3-4 clearly define the foundation of this cause.

 ''3: All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. God is our merciful Father and the source of all comfort. 4: He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others when they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us''

I was comforted, nurtured beyond measure and duly protected even when I didn't realise I needed protection. By nature, I strongly dislike injustice, oppression and people preying on one another especially within the family unit. No wonder I was empowered for this purpose. Believe me when I say....''I Love the fact that I was chosen''.

Quoting the words of Maya Angelou - ''When you learn, Teach. When you get, Give'' 

Over the years I have learnt and I'm willing to teach. I have gotten a wealth of knowledge and understanding of domestic abuse amongst other things and I am willing to share.

In our journey of life, no experience is a waste. Good or bad, there's always something to learn from it and it will be a grave error to miss the lesson(s). To the best of my God-given ability, I hope to impart knowledge of domestic abuse, provide help, mentoring and support for not only the abused but to the abusers as well.

The Aims & Objectives of the initiative are:
  • To create awareness of domestic violence/abuse in African societies
  • To raise awareness of Mental Health/Personality Disorders in African societies
  • To educate and raise awareness of the impact of mental and personality disorders (focus on Domestic Violence) in African societies
  • To provide help, support, useful tools and advice for abusers, the abused and their loved ones
I will be using the following selected social media platforms to share information:

Knowledge is power!. I strongly believe that by making better and informed choices, we can enjoy everyday of our lives, become better people equipped with conscious ability to make positive impacts in our world.

I am delighted and honoured to join many men and women across the globe who against all odds, have dedicated time and resources to promote various causes that serve humanity. GOD BLESS YOU ALL

Thank you for visiting, please leave your comments. I will appreciate your constructive feedback. Feel free to share useful information with your loved ones and use the hashtag #thenurtured to show your support for Domestic Violence related causes.

With Love,

O.A Dip.Cognitive Behavioural Therapy


  1. Feyi thanks for sharing your story. I've always admired what a strong, intelligent woman you are.

  2. Dear Feyisitan, wishing you favour and grace as you embark on this mission. Well done


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